Monday, October 6, 2008

A PAUSE IN PELOPONNESE (Part 2)






Idalis:

A VACATION FROM OUR VACATION

When Kevin and I arrived to the southern Peloponnese in the town of Gythio, we were only planning to stay a few days. We had read that it was a stark, sparsely inhabited area, but it had some sights we were curious to explore. We thought that a few days in this rugged area of southern Greece would be just enough time, and it was a convenient jumping-off point to get to the island of Crete.

Kevin and I arrived at Camping Maltemi last Thursday night. It is a nice campground, 3 kilometers outside of the town of Gythio, where legend says Helen and Paris (prince of Troy) began their affair which culminated in the Trojan War. Camping Maltemi is also a working olive grove, where they produce their own olive oil and cure kalamata olives (which you do not want to pick right off the tree and eat - YUCK!). It is right on the beach of Mavrouvouni, known for its windsurfing spot. We planned on renting one of the bungalows that had a kitchen, as we were looking forward to cooking for ourselves and just taking it easy for a few days. We had read that there were five ferries a week to Crete, so thought we could take our pick. We soon found out we were very wrong! Yes, there are five ferries a week to Crete . . . in the summer! In the off season (now), there is only one ferry a week to Crete, which means that we'd have to wait a WHOLE WEEK before leaving this little town! Kevin and I looked at each other, already becoming anxious and fidgety, wondering how we would occupy our time, as we were not in the “city” of Gythio (I use that term lightly) and were “stuck” on this campground, without transport, for 7 long days! How would we survive? What would we do? Wouldn't we get bored? VERY bored? Being accustomed to (relative) creature comforts made us worry – we had been camping before - but 1) always had a car, 2) have only gone for a few days at a time and, 3) never had to communicate in Greek!

Well, suffice to say, this is what we've needed – a vacation from our vacation! There are no sights to see (okay, maybe one), no postcards to send, and no museum lines we have to wait in! We have truly enjoyed our time here. At first, it was really hard. We're just not used to having all this . . . t i m e. We've had to (blessedly!) learn how to change gears. Kevin and I get up in the morning and start our slow, fairly meaningless day. I go for a run on the beach and then face the sea as I do yoga. Meanwhile, Kevin goes out for a long paddle on one of the many windsurf boards here (that took a bit of begging!). When we're both done, we sit on the beach and stare at the Lakonian Sea. We then stroll back to our simple, little bungalow. We have fresh fruit and coffee for breakfast (thank you, Amor!) and just linger, talking and laughing. Breakfast has never lasted so long (okay, maybe in Cinque Terre it did!). Sometimes we go for a walk, play with one of the many cats on the premises, or (gasp!) take a nap. Sometimes we walk into “town” to buy bread (or more Greek wine!), but usually we've just enjoyed the scenery here – going to the beach, reading, or sunning by the pool and going down the kiddie slide! Kevin cooks every night, as camping has always brought out the chef in him! Our dinners are great, tasty and homemade, and seem to last for hours. We sit outside, talk, listen to the crickets, enjoy a bottle of wine, and remind each other how very lucky we are.

There are a few sites we wanted to explore, but because this area is so remote, traveling by bus can prove to be very complicated. So we've missed the ancient ruins and the spectacular gorges, yet we don't feel guilty about it! We think it was meant to be this way, forcing us to slow down. We did go on an excursion one day to the amazing Diros Caves, in the Lakonian Mani. They are a 14 kilometer network of caves at sea level, so most of it is only accessible by boat. It was a spectacular sight to behold, even if our bus driver both there and back was a grumpy, rude chauffeur. We have found (and read) that the locals in the southern Peloponnese are a bit like their environment – dry and rugged. But, we have also met some very friendly people here, from the lady at the local market where we buy our bread, to the men at the snack bar who let Kevin borrow the old, abandoned boards for his memorable, morning paddles.

We have truly enjoyed our time here and feel blessed to have been able to slow down, smell the roses (literally), and appreciate our surroundings and each other.

17 comments:

Anonymous said...

It all sounds so wonderful. It's funny how it can be so hard for us to slow down. It does take some doing to get used to not doing something every minute...but it is a nice change.
I always love that you mention Cinque Terre as a special memory. How wonderful those four short days were. Thanks for making it impossible for us not to meet you in Italy (looking forward to Argentina)! Always with much love...mom :)

Anonymous said...

Sounds to me like you are becoming compatable with country side living. Enjoying one anothers company and finding out that one can live without bustling around and being to busy to take time to really enjoy life. Now that you have a taste of the good live maybe you will take time in the future to continue to smell the roses, or maybe shear circumstance will bring you to this point again who knows after all what's the hurry your at a point in your lives to savor the moment, enjoy each others company, get to know one another more deeply, and all of this in a bueatiful place like the Greek islands. Somthing to really write about, and you are! On top of all of that you have all of us tagging-a-long and enjoying each moment that you post on this blog with you. There is no doubt in my mind that many of us who are reading your adventures wish we were doing what you two have decided to take the time to do. After all you only live once. The pictures you are posting look really great, keep them coming.
Love Dad

Anonymous said...

yo,yo,yo!
greece sounds awsome.I know sarah would fuckin' love it there!Sparkling, crystal clear waters, the food, beautiful people; I can easily see myself lovin' it too!
As always I'm diggin' your words.Keep it up so I can travel right along with you.Jav'y had some great stories to. Hey, me and lucus are surf sking around mia-beach on the 31'st. 22mi.I know you would join us! Always missing you both, Peace, Love & Happiness-S.K.

Anonymous said...

So, you all have learned how to r-e-l-a-x! That's wonderful! I'm relearning how to w-o-r-k! I've been at the school for a week now and they have offered me full time as the other teacher resigned. So I have gone from not working in too long to remember (excluding the work of being a mommy) to now being at a job every day. It's nice to be working and helping the high schoolers, but poor Jeremy has had his little world totally turned upside down since mom and dad left for It-ly! He's adjusting and doing well with Nonna, but nothing makes me happier than seeing the smile on his face when I come home. So, enjoy your lazy days...many people don't get enough of them and I am relearning why to appreciate them. (Although in all honesty, it's not easy to be lazy with Jeremy around.) I love you both and so enjoy the blog. Have I said that yet? Hugs and kisses!

Anonymous said...

Dear Uncle Kevin and Tialis,
Heh-whoa! Duckie, moooo, cow. Mommy no. Tat tat tat, e i e i o. A-pane. Brrrum, brrrum. Mmmmwuah!
(Translation: Hello! I am learning so many new things. I am getting very big too. I went to the doctor last week for a check up and he said I am so tall that I am like Shaq! I also got my last vaccine until I am four. And thank goodness for that, because that hurts. And I know you know what I mean because you had to get a lot of them before you all left. I can't wait to see you both in Argentina, or wherever. Until then, I look forward to more posts and to talking to you on skype. I love you!)

Anonymous said...

hi kevin & idalis, it's gina again. i signed up with blogger so i could use a consistent username. i just wanted to stop by and say hello. i just read this post and i have to say that i know the feeling of needing a vacation from a vacation. your way of describing your experience there thus far really makes it easy to imagine being there myself. yoga on the beach in greece sounds fantastic. i would love to travel extensively someday...reading about your travels is definitely inspiring. well i hope all is well and i will catch up with you both soon.

Kevin said...

Hello Everybody. Sorry it has been so long since we have posted. Internet access has been nill for the last few days. Right now, we are in a small town in southern Crete where we found a "game room" with little kids pounding n computers while playing war games, probably on line with kids from the States. We are in a corner on a computer that takes coins and allows for internet access.

It is really good to hear from all of you. We hope to have a post written and up for our experience in Crete, which has been phenominal! Until then, please practice patience.

Mom, great to hear from you. We love you very much!

Dad, your writing seems to have dramatically improved since Italy! We are now just as excited to read your comments as we assume people are to read our posts!

Shawn and Sarah, you are absloutely right. We think that you would LOVE Grece. There is no doubt. The water is so clear you can see to the botom up until around fifty feet, I would say. There are hiking trails, or E4's, every where! Yesterday, we hiked in Samaria National Park and covered a distance of approximately 15 kilometers in about six hours. The hike was incredible and a bit challenging. The whole time we kept saying that we wished you guys were there with us. I am sorry that Javi had to go home. It must break his heart to leave home each time. It definately broke ours! And again, sorry for the lack of phone calls lately. As soon as we get a good wifi connection, we promise to call!

Hello little, uh, um, I mean, big Jeremy. It is so great to hear from you. Your Uncle and Tialis miss you more than you know. One day soon, we will be sending out another post card, so keep your eyes peeled. Please be good for your Mom and Nona. It may be hard with all the changes, but it is a good thing.

ReRe, Great to hear from you! COngratulations! We were just talking about you yesterday and saying what a good worker you were and hoping that something came through for you...looks like it did! Please stay in touch with uys and please be patient. Internet access has been real difficult since we left camping Meltemi. As soon as we are up and running, you should expect another call.

Gina? Is this my Aunt Gina? If so, it is so great to see you posting on here. If it is not, than you will have to remind me who you are. Having a Google account is not all that bad. We really like, and use, all of their services. You can, however, always just sign in "anonymous", but sign your comments or we do not know who it is. We hope you are well and invite you to do yoga with us on any number of the beaches that we plan on visiting around the world!!!

Bye for now and we love and miss you all, but you already knew that!!!!

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Anonymous said...

hi kevin, this is your aunt gina, sorry i forgot to sign my last comment. now you know i'm niteowl. i picked that name because i stay up too late all the time haha : ) i tried yoga for the first time like 6 months ago and i love it, i practice almost everyday. i hope you and idalis are both doing well and i will say hi to you both again soon.

love,

"aunt" gina

Anonymous said...

Hi guys

Hope you are enjoying your vacation from your vacation. I need one also. Luckily I have been off for a few days since I got back from Bali. I am still super Jet lagged. It was awesome by the way and the waves were the best of anywhere I have been but crowded. Can't wait to read your next blog. Wishing safe and happy travels as always. Take care. Karen.

Kevin said...

Gina, welcome to the other family...the blogging family! We are very happy to welcome you! I thought it had to be you. Idalis and I thought, "hmmm, Gina, only know one!" It is really great to hear from you. I am also glad to hear that you are enjoying yoga. unfortunately, we have not been able to practice much lately, but, that will all change when we get to India! Where, perhaps you could meet us. If you are interested, we would love to see you anywhere. Bye for now NiteOwl, but don't be a stranger.

Karen, welcome back! I am glad to hear that you had a great time. Please write back and tell us all about it! We are actually sitting in the port office right now waiting for our ferry to Santorini. Per your suggestion, we will be hiking from Fira into Oia. Couldn't find any caves to stay in, but we got a super cheap hotel. Please give us an update on your Mom and some details from your trip as soon as you recuperate from your jet lag!

To everyone else, we love you and miss you and hope to have a new post up soon. Sorry for the delay!!

Anonymous said...

Hey Kevin,
It is the tabloid queen. Just read your post about heading to Santorini...always wanted to go there since that movie..Summer Lovers with Darryl Hannah? When I was in Greece, the ferries weren't that regular..gotta love the slow season..so we didn't make it!! Love the white buildings with the blue trim!!
Sounds like you and Idalis are having a great time! Lucky girl with that whole lock thing in Italy!!! Such a romantic! Won't bore you with things here in our lovely department...will only tell you things are HOT!
Safe travels...and thanks for giving me something else to reas besides my magazines!!!

Anonymous said...

Just finished reading the latest post. Thought I'd say hello. Seems Gina has posted a comment, that's good news. Keep us all posted with what is going on. Next blog post will be a book.
Dad

Kevin said...

Hey Tabloid Queen (Maria), it is always great getting a post from you. I am hoping to ween you off of those trashy magazines! Santorini is incredibly impressive, strikingly beautiful and far too touristic than I would have ever imagined, even for the off season. However, if you ever get the chance to come here, you definitely should. Just to see the result of natures wrath (volcano) and how it has completely transformed the landscape is worth it. I hope you avoid getting burned by the HEAT. Just keep quiet and your head in a magazine and everything should be okay. Wishing you the best and greetings from Santorini!!

Hey Pop, sorry we have been so long in getting the new post up. I hope it is worth the wait. We actually found an internet cafe today and will be posting it right after this comment. It is great to hear from Gina. We were totally surprised. We hope she meets us in India (wink, wink, Gina). Love and miss you all.

The Vagalongers!

Anonymous said...

Kevin and Adalis,
I would say How the Heck are you, but I won't, because as I have read the both of you are doing just fine.JUST FINE! Training for the Marathon in Jan. Lost over 14lbs. I'm up to 15 miles right now still got aways to go. I still do the shake in the morning veggie during day eating them constantly and a nice meal at night with a BOTTLE of wine not a glass. Because what, I live in ELLLL Portaaaaal. My partner in crime is doing okay taking one step at a time enjoying is new home. There in not much else going on that you probably don't already know. Keep safe and Please keep Idalis Safer. Idalis (Hello how are you?)

vagalong.blogspot.com said...

Bunkeport, Great news! Man, I won't even recognize you when I get back. You are right, we are both doing well. It is great to hear from you and great to know that your partner in crime is doing well too. Please tell him that I say hello and that I am very proud of him. Now, he only has to get that passport. Brazil is calling!!!

Anonymous said...

Hey Kidz!

When I was in college, I traveled through Greece with my girlfriend. We were in Athens and there was a ferry strike, so we couldnt get to the islands for a week. While this was an unexpected delay in our travels, we decided to take a 10 hours bus ride to Nafplion on the Peloponnese. It was a quaint little seaside village, as well as a stark contrast to the less than friedly Athens. People were slower in movement, but quicker to say hello (Yasoo! - or however you spell it). Though it wasnt exciting, and there was not a heck of a lot to see, like your journey in the Peloponnese it was a good time to take pause, reflect and rekindle the spirit.

Cheers to you both! We miss you smiling faces.

Shane